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Whenever I go to a networking event, I walk in as a CAT. Meow Just kidding. CAT is a three-part framework that finally made networking feel like something I could actually enjoy—instead of something I had to survive. It’s how I’ve landed invitations, intros, and opportunities, without ever delivering a “pitch.” 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐬: C - Curiosity Don’t walk in trying to sell. Walk in wanting to learn. When you’re genuinely curious, people can tell. Your questions get sharper. The conversation gets real. Suddenly, they’re opening up and you’re both actually interested, instead of just circling the same old small talk. Ask stuff like, “What made you choose this path?” and see how much more you get than ten minutes of polite nodding. Bonus side effect of being curious? No anxiety. Curiosity kicks self-consciousness out the door. It’s Win Win. A - Add Offer something useful, expect nothing back. Most people try to get noticed by talking about themselves—flip that. Leave them better than you found them. Maybe you share a contact. Maybe you offer a resource based on something they casually mentioned. Maybe you say, “I know someone who solved that exact thing, want me to connect you?” It’s rare, and people remember it. Generosity that isn’t transactional is magnetic. T - Timing Leave a breadcrumb for next time. Most “let’s stay in touch” promises fade out because there’s nothing to anchor them. So end the conversation with a time cue: “Let’s catch up after your launch, I want the inside scoop.” “Tell me how the team offsite goes when we reconnect.” Now the follow-up feels natural, not forced. And you show you were actually paying attention, which—let’s be honest—most people aren’t. So that’s CAT. Curiosity + Add + Timing. It’s how I network without feeling like a salesperson. Try it at your next event, and let me know if it works for you. Follow Aaina for more such posts! #networking #collaboration #events #branding #strategy #mindset

Work shouldn’t cost you the things that matter most. Too often, people sacrifice their health, relationships, and happiness for their jobs. On Thanksgiving let's get that balance right. But the most successful professionals understand this simple truth: Work and well-being can coexist. Here are 5 principles to create a fulfilling work-life balance: 1. 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗡𝗼𝗻-𝗡𝗲𝗴𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 → Define your work hours and stick to them. → Protect your personal time like it’s a crucial meeting. 2. 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘇𝗲 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀 → Focus on high-impact tasks and let go of unnecessary ones. → Don’t let fake urgencies derail your priorities. 3. 𝗘𝗺𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗙𝗹𝗲𝘅𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 → Choose roles or policies that allow for remote or flexible work. → Flexibility isn’t a perk—it’s a necessity for well-being. 4. 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗕𝘂𝗿𝗻 𝗢𝘂𝘁 𝗦𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆 → Speak up about unreasonable workloads or toxic cultures. → Companies that prioritize well-being listen to employee feedback. 5. 𝗔𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗻 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗩𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲𝘀 → Choose roles and employers that align with your personal mission. → Success without fulfillment is a sign to reevaluate. Your work shouldn’t cost you your joy or health. What strategies help you balance work and life? Let me know in the comments below 👇 --- ♻️ Find this helpful? Repost for your network. ➕ Follow Dr Alexander Young for more tips on leadership, workplace culture, and career growth.

A few years ago, I was in a high stakes meeting with colleagues from Japan. I presented my points confidently, thinking I was making a great impression. But as I scanned the room, I saw blank expressions. No nods. No engagement. Just silence. I panicked. Had I said something wrong? Was my idea unconvincing? After the meeting, one of my Japanese colleagues pulled me aside and said, “Sumit, we really want to understand you, but you speak too fast.” That was my light bulb moment. For years, I assumed that mastering English and business communication was enough to build strong global relationships. But the real challenge wasn’t just the language - it was the rate of speech! Most of us don’t realize that speaking speed varies drastically across cultures. Here’s an eye-opener: ·      In India, we typically speak at 120–150 words per minute. ·      The global standard for clear communication is around 60–80 words per minute. ·      In Japan, where English is not the first language, this rate drops even further. So, what happens when we, as fast speakers, communicate with someone who is used to a much slower pace? Our words blur together. The listener struggles to process. And instead of making an impact, we create confusion. We often assume that if people don’t understand us, we need to repeat ourselves. But the truth is, we don’t need to repeat - we need to slow down, simplify, and pause. If you work in a multicultural environment, here are three things that can dramatically improve your communication: a.   Control your pace: Consciously slow down when speaking to an international audience. What feels “normal” to you might be too fast for them. b.   Use simple language: Smaller sentences. Easier words (vocabulary). c.    Pause & check for understanding: Don’t assume silence means agreement. Ask, “Does that make sense?” or “Would you like me to clarify anything?” I’ve seen professionals struggle in global roles - not because they lack expertise, but because they fail to adjust their communication style to their audience. I’ve also seen leaders who thrive across cultures, simply because they master the art of respectful, clear, and paced communication. If you want to succeed in a global workplace, rate of speech is not just a skill - it’s a strategy. Have you ever faced challenges due to differences in speaking speed? Let’s discuss. #GlobalCommunication #CrossCulturalLeadership #EffectiveCommunication #SoftSkills #CareerGrowth #WorkplaceSuccess #HR

How does cultural awareness elevate your leadership impact? Cultural awareness has become a vital skill for effective leadership. As leaders, it's crucial to understand and appreciate the diverse cultures within our teams and organizations. In doing so, we can nurture an inclusive environment, ignite innovation, and propel business success. How can we develop cultural awareness and become more effective leaders in a diverse workplace? Here are some key points to consider: 1️⃣ Embrace curiosity. Cultivate a genuine interest in learning about different cultures, customs, and perspectives. Challenge your assumptions and expand your worldview. 2️⃣ Prioritize active listening. Actively listen to your team members, giving them space to share their experiences and viewpoints. Create a safe environment for open dialogue and encourage diverse voices to be heard. 3️⃣ Educate yourself. Invest in continuous learning about different cultures, beliefs, and practices. Attend workshops, engage in cross-cultural training, and read books/articles to deepen your understanding. 4️⃣ Be adaptable and flexible. Recognize that there are no one-size-fits-all approaches in leadership. Adapt your leadership style to accommodate the needs and preferences of diverse individuals and teams. 5️⃣ Foster cultural intelligence. Develop your cultural intelligence by valuing diversity, being aware of your own biases, and leveraging cultural differences as strengths to fuel creativity and innovation. Incorporating these strategies enables the creation of a workplace culture that celebrates diversity, promotes inclusion, and ultimately drives better business outcomes. Let's embrace the power of cultural awareness in leadership and become the transformative leaders our organizations need in today's global landscape. #Leadership #DiversityandInclusion #FutureOfWork #Humanresources ***************************** 👉 Follow me for more leadership and practical insights on building high-performing teams. 👉 Ring the 🔔 for notifications.

7 Easy Ways To 10x Your Job Search Productivity: 1. Determine How Much Time You Can Allocate Every Day Consistency is one of the largest factors in job search success. Spending 6 hours every Saturday isn’t going to get you nearly as far as spending 1 hour job searching 6 days / week. As a starting point, review your schedule and determine an amount of time you can commit to 5 days per week. Taking the weekends off to recharge is important :) 2. Use The 5:50:5 Job Search Framework Having a structured plan is key to job search efficiency. I recommend using the 5:50:5 Method: 5 Job Search Tasks 50 Minutes 5 Days Per Week Feel free to adapt to fit your allocated time (e.g. 3:30:3, 2:20:2, etc). 3. Intentionally Schedule The Time “I’ll find time” isn’t a strategy. Your job search should be in your calendar, and those blocks should be non-negotiable. Take 15 minutes to: - Review every day in your calendar - Identify blocks of time where you can job search uninterrupted - Create invites / block that time 4. Batch Similar Tasks Together “Context Switching” is when you jump between two unrelated tasks. A study from the University of California found that it can take ~23 minutes to get back into a state of focus after context switching. Review the job search tasks from your 5:50:5 method. Group similar tasks together in the time blocks you created to maximize focus and effectiveness. 5. Use Ai For Tedious / Repeatable Tasks AI is not a replacement for you. But you can use it to automate repeatable tasks or brainstorm ideas. For example: - Weave keywords into your resume - Write initial cover letter drafts - Brainstorm ways to add value when networking - Get feedback on interview answers 6. Use The “Smallest Viable Action” Strategy Sometimes it feels impossible to get up the energy to job search. If you feel that way, think of the absolute smallest action you could take: Update one bullet in your resume Open a networking email draft and write Hi [Name], Browse new jobs on LinkedIn for 30 seconds You’ll find that once you take the small action, it’ll be easier to keep going. 7. Say “No” To Energy Drainers As a job seeker, we can feel pressure to say “yes” to every opportunity. Learning to say “no” to things that don’t bring you energy or align with your strengths can help you save that energy for higher ROI tasks. Ex: Hate in person networking events? Say no. Reallocate that time to virtual networking instead. All of these will help you be more productive. But even if you only choose and implement one or two? You'll see a big impact on your job search.

One of the most important skills that one needs as a founder, and surprisingly, no one talks about it enough, is emotional intelligence (EQ). While we focus on growing our business, we neglect the very thing that can make or break our success: our ability to understand and manage emotions, both our own and those of others. It allows you to: - Create a positive company culture - Communicate effectively - Lead with empathy and - Navigate conflicts Here are 5 ways that helped me improve my EQ: 1. I pay attention to my emotions and how they affect my behavior and decisions. Regularly check in with yourself and be honest about your strengths and weaknesses. 2. In conversations, I try to focus on understanding others rather than just waiting to speak. The key is to listen for the underlying nonverbal cues, not just the words one says. 3. When faced with conflicts or challenging situations, I step back before reacting. This way, I can respond constructively and not impulsively to resolve the challenge. 4. This one takes time. Put yourself in others' shoes and try to understand their POV and feelings. It builds trust, strengthens relationships, and helps you lead with compassion. 5. Start seeing critics as opportunities for growth and not personal attacks. Seek out feedback from your team, mentors, and friends to improve yourself. Building your EQ is the best thing you can do for yourself, your team, and your business in the long run. #leadership #emotionalintelligence #mindset #growth

In 2008, Michael Phelps won Olympic GOLD - completely blind. The moment he dove in, his goggles filled with water. But he kept swimming. Most swimmers would’ve fallen apart. Phelps didn’t - because he had trained for chaos, hundreds of times. His coach, Bob Bowman, would break his goggles, remove clocks, exhaust him deliberately. Why? Because when you train under stress, performance becomes instinct. Psychologists call this stress inoculation. When you expose yourself to small, manageable stress: - Your amygdala (fear centre) becomes less reactive. - Your prefrontal cortex (logic centre) stays calmer under pressure. Phelps had rehearsed swimming blind so often that it felt normal. He knew the stroke count. He hit the wall without seeing it. And won GOLD by 0.01 seconds. The same science is why: - Navy SEALs tie their hands and practice underwater survival. - Astronauts simulate system failures in zero gravity. - Emergency responders train inside burning buildings. And you can build it too. Here’s how: ✅ Expose yourself to small discomforts. Take cold showers. Wake up 30 minutes earlier. Speak up in meetings. The goal is to build confidence that you can handle hard things. ✅ Use quick stress resets. Try cyclic sighing: Inhale deeply through your nose. Take a second small inhale. Exhale slowly through your mouth. Repeat 3-5 times to calm your system fast. ✅ Strengthen emotional endurance. Instead of avoiding difficult conversations, hard tasks, or feedback - lean into them. Facing small emotional challenges trains you for bigger ones later. ✅ Celebrate small victories. Every time you stay calm, adapt, or keep going under pressure - recognise it. These tiny wins are building your mental "muscle memory" for resilience. As a new parent, I know my son Krish will face his own "goggles-filled-with-water" moments someday. So the best I can do is model resilience myself. Because resilience isn’t gifted - it’s trained. And when you train your brain for chaos, you can survive anything. So I hope you do the same. If this made you pause, feel free to repost and share the thought. #healthandwellness #mentalhealth #stress

The hard truth to swallow: If you're a great professional in your specialty, that might not be enough. 👇 There are 5 types of skill sets depending on the breadth and depth of knowledge and skills: 1) I-shaped: Deep expertise in one area but may lack versatility. 2) T-shaped: Expertise in one area with broad skills across disciplines. 3) M-shaped: Expertise across multiple specialties for versatile adaptability. 4) V-shaped: Excel in two complementary fields, bridging gaps between disciplines. 5) X-shaped: Deep expertise with leadership skills for diverse team management. When I was at the beginning of my career path, I believed that being I-shaped was sufficient. But before starting my own business and becoming a leader, I transitioned from being I-shaped to X-shaped. 📌 Here's how to progress from I to X: ↳ From I-shaped to T-shaped: Broaden your skill set horizontally by gaining proficiency in related areas. ↳ From T-shaped to M-shaped: Diversify your expertise across multiple disciplines. ↳ From M-shaped to V-shaped: Excel in complementary fields, leveraging your diverse skills to innovate and bridge gaps. ↳ From V-shaped to X-shaped: Develop leadership and collaboration abilities while retaining deep expertise in your area. Success isn't reserved for those who master just one thing. It's achieved by those who embrace their full potential. Skills open the doors to opportunities. Nothing else is that powerful.☝️ On the spectrum from I to X, where do you think you fall? Have you ever hired someone using this framework?

Feeling Stuck in Your Career? It Could Be a Competency Gap! 🚀 A few years ago, I worked with a team member, who was frustrated about being stuck in his role. He was technically skilled but couldn't figure out why promotions were passing him by. 💥That’s when we turned to competency mapping. 🔍 Together, we identified the key skills his position and future roles required—things like communication, leadership, and strategic thinking—which are critical competencies for growth. While he excelled in technical work, his communication skills needed refinement to step into leadership. By aligning his personal development with these competencies, we created a clear roadmap for his growth. Within a year, he sharpened his communication skills and was promoted to Team Lead. Competencies aren't just about what you’re good at now, but what you need to master for future success. Think of them as the blueprint for your career development. 💡 Key Competencies You Should Focus On: 💢Technical Expertise: Mastering the core skills required for your current role. 💢Communication: Expressing ideas clearly and collaborating with teams. 💢Leadership: Guiding teams and driving performance. 💢Strategic Thinking: Seeing the big picture and aligning with long-term goals. 💢Collaboration: Problem-solving and creating synergy within teams. 🔑 Key Action Points: 🖊️Identify the competencies needed for your next career step. 🖊️Compare your current skills with those required competencies. 🖊️Develop a plan to close any gaps through learning and experience. Feeling blocked in your career? It might be time to assess your competencies and create a growth plan. 📝 Start mapping your competencies today and take the first step toward unlocking your potential! #CareerGrowth #Leadership #CompetencyMapping #PersonalDevelopment #LifelongLearning #SkillDevelopment #LeadershipSkills #CommunicationSkills #ProfessionalGrowth

“A brilliant VP offended a Japanese client without realizing it.” The meeting room in Tokyo was a masterpiece of minimalism—soft tatami mats, the faint scent of green tea, walls so silent you could hear the gentle hum of the air conditioner. The Vice President, sharp suit, confident smile, walked in ready to impress. His presentation was flawless, numbers airtight, strategy compelling. But then came the smallest of gestures—the moment that shifted everything. He pulled out his business card… and handed it to the Japanese client with one hand. The client froze. His lips curved into a polite smile, but his eyes flickered. He accepted the card quickly, almost stiffly. A silence, subtle but heavy, filled the room. The VP thought nothing of it. But what he didn’t know was this: in Japanese culture, a business card isn’t just paper. It’s an extension of the person. Offering it casually, with one hand, is seen as careless—even disrespectful. By the end of the meeting, the energy had shifted. The strategy was strong, but the connection was fractured. Later, over coffee, the VP turned to me and said quietly: “I don’t get it. The meeting started well… why did it feel like I lost them halfway?” That was his vulnerability—brilliance in business, but blind spots in culture. So, I stepped in. I trained him and his leadership team on cross-cultural etiquette—the invisible codes that make or break global deals. • In Japan: exchange business cards with both hands, take a moment to read the card, and treat it with respect. • In the Middle East: never use your left hand for greetings. • In Europe: being two minutes late might be forgiven in Paris, but never in Zurich. These aren’t trivial details. They are currencies of respect. The next time he met the client, he bowed slightly, held the business card with both hands, and said: “It’s an honor to work with you.” The client’s smile was different this time—warm, genuine, approving. The deal, once slipping away, was back on track. 🌟 Lesson: In a global world, etiquette is not optional—it’s currency. You can have the best strategy, the sharpest numbers, the brightest slides—but if you don’t understand the human and cultural nuances, you’ll lose the room before you know it. Great leaders don’t just speak the language of business. They speak the language of respect. #CrossCulturalCommunication #ExecutivePresence #SoftSkills #GlobalLeadership #Fortune500 #CulturalIntelligence #Boardroom #BusinessEtiquette #LeadershipDevelopment #Respect